Sanatan Weekly Online
Issue No. 235 · August 8, 2004
Editor: Mr. Pruthviraj Purushottam Hajare

Articles

Need For Spirituality

Saints' Blessings
to the Sanatan


Clarification of Doubts

Food for Thought

Spiritual Practice for Awakening Spiritual Emotion

Children's Corner

Religious Festivals

Spiritual Practice for Destroying Ego

Spiritual Experiences

Experiment of the
Subtle Dimension


Memorable Quotes

 





Need For Spirituality
Negative stereotypes associated with America’s sororities found to be true: spiritual practice from childhood to build inner strength in youth

    USA – A recent news article highlighted an author’s findings on America’s sororities (student associations in college for female students). The author, Alexandra Robbins, has written “Pledged: The Secret Life of Sororities.” During the 2002-2003 school year, Robbins went undercover as a student at a college she called “State U,” to find out whether the stereotypes that America’s sororities are associated with were true. She also spoke to and visited hundreds of other sorority sisters across the country.

    The author looked into stereotypes, such as binge drinking, drug use, eating disorders and promiscuity. However, because many of the myths turned out to be accurate, she did not identify the university and its two sororities, to protect the identity of the women students who agreed to participate in the book’s research. The students the author chose for her study were smart, friendly girls, representative of the ‘girl next door’.

    After going undercover as ‘just another’ sorority member, the author found that some sororities promote nudity, open sexual relations among women students and sexual relations with men students through parties and functions. There’s frequently a race to get dates from in-demand fraternity (male students’ association) boys. By comparison, the award for getting the highest GPA (academic achievement) in the sororities was easy. The author also found that in the sororities she visited, binge drinking, eating disorders, promiscuity are prevalent enough to be of concern. There are also cases of rapes that go unreported. Cheating on school tests by providing access to previous papers (that are supposed to be inaccessible) for scholastic achievement is also common among sororities.

    The author maintained that she was not anti-sorority, since she feels that a sorority, with proper changes, has great potential to benefit its members. She said that she understands that most girls join sororities simply to belong to a more intimate community. The girls seem to go into them with good intentions. To them, sororities promise to be a group that offers a sense of belonging without needing a specific talent, unlike a singing group or debate team. However, the author felt that on the flip side, acceptance in sororities today is based on looks and wealth.

    It is indeed shocking that so many harmful practices like binge drinking, eating disorders, promiscuity and even rapes, take place to such a great extent, right on a college campus – an institution that is supposed to develop youth for a bright future. As the author has said, the need to belong is only natural and something most students may have experienced. However, it is important to ensure that the fulfillment of our needs is not achieved through harmful means.

    To ensure proper decision-making, even in the face of peer pressure and temptations of today’s school atmosphere, a student needs a strong foundation of values and inner strength. This foundation is built easily if spiritual practice is introduced as an essential part of the student’s daily routine, right from childhood. A spiritual routine could include chanting* God’s Name every day, remaining in regular contact (satsang) with other children doing spiritual practice, with spiritual texts, and with stories of God and devotees, that encourage children to apply spiritual values in daily life**.

- Editor.

* Constantly remembering or repeating God’s Name as per our religion. Young children should also chant 'Om Gan Ganapataye namaha' (Lord Ganesh's chant) for at least 15-30 minutes daily for divine protection. Older children, who have been doing spiritual practice for some time, can find out their exact chant from the experiment in Issue 124, Message to Seekers section. Parents should repeat (chant) The Lord's Name for children too young to do so for themselves. Please refer to Issue 23, Clarification of Doubts section for how chanting works on the mind.

** Examples of remarkable and rapid changes in children and youth can be seen in past and present Issues of the Sanatan organization’s Weekly Online newsletter in the Children’s Spiritual Experiences section.



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